I was arrested Monday night. I was in jail from then until Thursday night after I bailed myself out. My wife and I got into a big fight after I found some checking accounts and credit card accounts that I didn’t know about. The credit card had a hotel charge on it for a night she supposedly went out for a girlfriend night to the movies. Anyways, the neighbor called the police and that was it. We did get into a physical fight over her cell phone that I wanted to look through to see her messages and phone calls, and she didn’t want me to see any of it. I did grab and push her during that time.
I got fired from my job for missing the days I was in jail, and I called a lawyer about all the legal paperwork I’ve been getting and he advised me that it looks like my wife may be setting up to divorce me based on the legal stuff I’ve been served so far.
She filed a restraining order against me and I can’t go home and we moved to california to be near her family, so naturally, I have no one here. My family helped put me in a hotel for a few days while I figure out what to do.
Last week I had a great job and what I thought was a good marriage. Suddenly I’m a criminal with no job and I think my wife has been cheating on me and is leaving me. I found in our Chrome History that while I was in jail she was searching how to get alimony out of a divorce suit.
I am not doing well. And I don’t know what I’m going to do.
This is why I’ve been absent. I’m only posting this now because I’m alone in a hotel and everyone in my family is 2500 miles away and I don’t have any friends here outside of my wife’s friends and family, and I’m very alone and I wanted to share why I haven’t posted more about my trailer build.